Friday, August 15, 2014
The Woman Behind the Poet
Sunday, June 1, 2014
The Poetry of War
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| Photo by Kathleen Tyler Conklin |
Friday, April 25, 2014
The Yin and Yang of April
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| Hillwood Estate by Kathleen Tyler Conklin |
Tuesday, April 1, 2014
Women Irish Poets
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| Eavan Boland |
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| Photo of Oscar Wilde Statue in Dublin Kathleen Tyler Conklin |
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
Poetry of Hope
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| Photograph by Kathleen Tyler Conklin |
Friday, January 24, 2014
January Thaw
The snow that came this January is going to stick around for awhile.
Usually, our January storms melt quickly in warming temperatures
and bright sunlight. But this year, the cold will mold it into grayish
brown lumps that displease the eye and that continue to lurk in odd
places to trip us, when least expecting it. It is very, very cold.
Extremely cold for this area. It is finger and toe numbing cold.
Numbing is the word of this month and segues into my January blog.
We have so many ways of numbing our feelings. We push them
down…freeze them into such odd lumps that they become
inaccessible. We have learned ways to numb our feelings through
alcohol, food, drugs (prescription or other), shopping, TV in excess,
frantic busyness etc.…a list we know all too well.
There are times when it is necessary to "numb out" and ok to do so.
Whatever gets you through. But if we stick around in these places,
it will be hard to welcome a January thaw. We will get used to being
numb. I refuse to use the old cliche, get in touch with your feelings.
Let me put it this way. Get in touch with some poetry, some music,
some close friends. Have a January Thaw Party. Go to an art gallery
or dig out an art book and let the landscapes of spring and summer
warm you. Have a heart to heart talk with a good friend. Let the
tears flow. One of the best parts of being human is having feelings.
Feel them.
Saturday, December 21, 2013
BAH HUMBUG
'Tis the season to be jolly. The only reason for the existence of this line is that jolly rhymes with holly (forget folly).
Christmas is the season when feelings other than jolly can present themselves. In the midst of all the business, the ghosts of Christmases past often appear in our consciousness. Charles Dickens has written a masterful tale about Christmas and transformation in "A Christmas Carol". We are able to identify with many of his characters…and realize there is a little Scrooge in all of us.
Admitting this allows our dark side to float up in times of fatigue. Irritability grabs us while compulsively shopping for food or gifts, standing in mail lines, endlessly decorating the house or making arrangements for meals and festivities. Let the feelings surface, be sad, give way to a regret or two, make friends with the ghosts. After acknowledging this, like Scrooge, we can let go of Bah Humbug and jolly up.
It will be time then to light the lights, give away a smile or a hug, dip a finger in the eggnog, and if you can, have a dickens of a time.








